Step into her shoes and walk the life she's living and if you get as far as she, just maybe you will see how strong she really is. Faith is first, her family is her everything and her story is her unique own.

This is a place where the love and stories of our family are shared. We hope you enjoy, and visit again soon...

"A little party never hurt no one... thats why its alright." -Art Deco


Tuesday, September 14, 2010

Our Old Girl

Our dog... a piece of our family... my princess... Pursie, turned 13 this year! Stink asked how many years that is in "people age". When I said about 90 years old both Stink and Benny laughed as they looked at each other- whoa style. Yes, it has grown into a very respectful relationship.

I remember when my Mom brought her home, I was still in school and she was just a few years old. She clung to me and I adopted her... stole her right from my mother. She knew where she belonged though, with me! She was my girl. We would go on walks alone together, trips to the dog park and I remember the very spot behind my legs she would snuggle up to every night. I loved dressing her up in shirts and Halloween costumes. I remember her chewing fetish that was short lived, but ended after a very expensive pair of shoes were targeted.

She's still my girl. She watched me grow into a woman and have babies... been through it all with me. She loves Benny and Stink just as much as me... protected them as infants to now, and let them tug and drag her around during the process.

Now it's different, but our love is still the same and strong. Last year we almost lost her to a tooth infection. Her eyesight is now gone and she will no longer walk up the stairs... but she wags her tail just the same when I come home as she did when she was a pup.

We celebrated her birthday this year with presents, "Pursie" party hats and moist food with a lit candle in it- which she about singed her whiskers on not seeing the flame.

My sister came over for the day with a mechanical baby, a life-like baby project for school. Pursie sat next to the baby carrier like she did when the boys were tiny, right back to protecting. The baby started to cry and she got up sniffing the baby and stood tall right next to it. She may be blind, old, stinky, and not the best guard dog... but she certainly tried her best to fulfill her doggy duty.



We love her so much... we had a good life with her... and that girl is the most loyal thing I have ever met.

Wednesday, September 1, 2010

Family

First things first... I can't believe I haven't blogged in over two weeks. I'm so excited to type! I have been super busy with normal life stuff, extra stuff lately. I made some big decisions and changes to my daily routine and adjusting to them, so readers... hold tight and thank you for your patience.



I felt I needed to touch on family tonight. Family is so very important... and family is different to everyone. We can't choose them, and if we could, whoever made the rule would be more than famous. Don't laugh! But- I don't want to choose my family. The family that I have, I love. They aren't perfect... by any means. We all have flaws and imperfections, that's the beauty of difference. The real "pretty" is the lessons. We learn from what we see, what we go through, and what we don't.

It isn't family that makes or breaks us... it's us and the decisions we make for ourselves and how we want to live our lives. I am thankful for my family, realizing now more than ever how thankful I am. Dysfunction is in every home to some degree and we all have no rights to judge. There isn't such a thing as a perfect person or the perfect family, and usually the ones that get that label just have things a little more hidden than others... It's all generally there and the same, just do a little digging.

Which comes to why I am so thankful. I have my Faith. I have wonderful and wise grand-parents who are supportive and full of guidance. I have parents and some siblings who have lifestyles that I have learned from. I have the best of friends to share the life that I have made and chosen for myself. That is my family... that I love dearly. Family is what you make it to be. We can't change the cards we are dealt, nor should we want to! You can overcome anything, no excuses to be who you want to be. I grew up with the good and the bad just as everyone does with or without a family. This has tailored me to be someone I am proud of. Though I'm not perfect, it's made the perfect recipe for... me.